Affirmation of the Day for April 25

It is the simple things that make me happy. Being with friends or loved ones, sharing food and wine and laughter. Life is good.
~from Ingrid

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10 Feng Shui Tips for Increasing Love and Romance

10 Feng Shui Tips for Increasing Love and Romance

Prep your home for passion

by Stephanie Dempsey

Feng Shui practitioners believe that the best way to attract love is to adjust your environment accordingly. Dingy surroundings, piles of clutter, and self-absorbed artwork can actually drive Cupid from your door. Here, then, are 10 simple tips for finding your perfect mate… or for increasing the passion in your long-term relationship or marriage.

Create Cozy Seating Arrangements
Single chairs send a loud and clear message to prospective suitors and spouses: Back off! If you’re looking for love, create cozy seating arrangements from love seats, sofas, and chairs. Putting chairs at comfortable angles to each other will signal that you’re ready to welcome a relationship.

Replace Images of Lone Figures with Pictures of Happy Couples
Artwork has a tremendous impact on the subconscious. When you surround yourself with photos, paintings, sculptures, and knickknacks of solitary figures, you’ll carry yourself accordingly. Replacing such images with representations of happy couples will make you more receptive to love.

Keep the Television Out of the Bedroom
Nothing kills romance like the drone of late night television. If you have trouble falling asleep, try unwinding by reading love poetry or romantic novels. Your subconscious will shift accordingly, making you a virtual love magnet.

Treat Yourself to Sensual Bedding
That old ratty pillow from college and those serviceable sheets aren’t doing your sex life any favors. Go ahead and splurge on pillows, blankets, and sheets that invite you to linger in bed.

Downsize from a King to a Queen
Sleeping on a huge mattress won’t encourage intimacy. Invest in a comfortable queen-sized bed if you’d like to cultivate more love in your life. If you simply can’t make the switch, make sure to sleep on patterned sheets to add some zest to your sex life.

Make Space for Each Other
Avoid making your partner feel crowded out by your possessions by reducing your personal clutter in shared areas of your home, closets, drawers, etc. When you demonstrate you are willing to share your physical space generously with your partner, the space in your hearts can open up, too.

Pull Your Bed away from the Wall
Pushing your bed against the wall effectively crowds out any chance for love to expand in your life. Arrange your bed so that it has enough space to walk on either side. Before you know it, you’ll be cuddling close with your special someone, instead of hugging your pillow for comfort as if you were alone.

Make Your “Gua” a Shrine to Love
Using the front door of your home as a reference point, the far right corner of your home represents relationships and is known as the “Relationship Gua” in Feng Shui. Therefore, you need to keep this area intimate and inviting. A love seat illuminated with adjustable lighting is ideal for this special spot.

Keep the Family at Bay
Your bedroom represents your romantic life. Therefore, the last images you want to see here are photos of dear old Mom and Dad. Children’s artwork and toys will also undermine your sex life. Celebrate these relationships in other areas of your household, but keep your boudoir a private retreat.

Think Pink!
Warm colors like pink and red can enliven your love life considerably. Soft shades like rose, salmon, and coral can attract a gentle partner who is attentive to your needs, while bold colors like scarlet, crimson, and burgundy will draw a passionate adventurer to your side.

Psychic Tip of the Day for April 25

Psychic Tip
of the Day

Monday, April 25, 2011

EGO DRIVE
You can feel good about what you know that gives you an advantage. Just a little knowledge unique to you can give you all the control you want. But how much will you need? human ego, gets together with Mercury, the messenger planet. The truth will be told today. Look for plenty of opportunities to understand the true workings of a relationship. Will you find what you are looking for in love?

Today’s I Ching Hexagram for April 25

Today’s I Ching Hexagram for Everyone:

27: Nourishment

Monday, April 25th, 2011

Hexagram 27

General Meaning: Nourishment refers to more than a healthy diet. It is the care-giving function. Eating properly implies care for oneself; providing healthy meals in the home is a sign of caring for the family. The writer of a great book or composer of an inspiring piece of music also provides nourishment, by caring deeply about the quality of his or her work and offering it to the world.

We can know others by observing what they choose to nourish in their lives. Do they properly feed and develop their bodies? Do they cultivate their spirits, their intellects, their moral values? Do they nourish and care for those around them? If so, to whom do they devote their energies? The most successful people are temperate in eating and drinking, thinking and dreaming. They strengthen the world by nurturing everyone’s higher nature.

Pay heed to your thoughts and impulses, ignoring those that undermine a healthy and persevering attitude. A wise person is temperate in the consumption of food and drink, because to be otherwise only leads to discomfort; the fact that temporary pleasure may precede the discomfort does not influence the person of mature character. In the same way, be discriminating in your words and actions, lest a desire for temporary advantage lead you to cause pain for yourself or others. Enrich your character and you will naturally nourish everyone around you.

Your Daily Number for April 25: 8

Your Daily Number: 8

Today is a day of karma in action; this could mean either rewards or loss. While you may be feeling generous, it’s not a good day for gambling. Your feelings of loyalty for friends will be strong; you may even spend some time reminiscing today. Your health will improve vastly with exercise, so get moving!

Fast Facts

About the Number 8

Theme: Power, Responsibility, Good Judgment, Financial Rewards
Astro Association: Leo
Tarot Association: Strength

Today’s Tarot Card for April 25

Today’s Tarot Card for Everyone:

The Devil

This Tarot Deck: Folklore

General Meaning: What has traditionally been known as the Devil card expresses the realm of the Taboo, the culturally rejected wildness and undigested shadow side that each of us carries in our subconscious. This shadow is actually at the core of our being, which we cannot get rid of and will never succeed in taming. From its earliest versions, which portrayed a vampire-demon, this card evoked the Church-fueled fear that a person could “lose their soul” to wild and passionate forces.

The image which emerged in the mid-1700’s gives us a more sophisticated rendition — that of the “scapegoated Goddess,” whose esoteric name is Baphomet. Volcanic reserves of passion and primal desire empower her efforts to overcome the pressure of stereotyped roles and experience true freedom of soul. Tavaglione’s highly evolved image (Stella deck) portrays the magical formula for harnessing and transmuting primal and obsessive emotions into transformative energies. As a part of the Gnostic message of Tarot, this fearsome passion and power must be reintegrated into the personality, to fuel the soul’s passage from mortal to immortal.

Daily Horoscopes for April 25

 

General Daily Horoscope

 

The Moon’s visit to intellectual Aquarius fuels the fires of the five-planet cluster in independent Aries. The global thinking of Aquarius combines nicely with the personal drive of Aries. The Moon’s harmonious trine to stabilizing Saturn grounds our ideas in practical action. Meanwhile, we receive support from the Sun, which has already escaped the Aries pack and is now in determined Taurus to make sure we follow through on what we have begun.

 

Aries Horoscope
Aries Horoscope (Mar 21 – Apr 19)

Although it’s back to work for many today, it might still seem like a play day to you. Even if you have obligations to fulfill, you can probably figure out how to involve your friends. You may be like Tom Sawyer, making your chores look like so much fun that others will want to join in and help. Everyone may end up having a good time, regardless of what you are doing. Ultimately, it’s the feeling of camaraderie that makes this day a memorable one.

 

 

Taurus Horoscope
Taurus Horoscope (Apr 20 – May 20)

You want to demonstrate your intelligence today so others will see you as a leader. Staying a step ahead of everyone else enables you to command enough authority to be in charge. However, you might not want all the responsibility that comes with this territory, just because you are seen as the top dog. It’s challenging because you’re not sure about the choices you have to make. Worrying won’t make anything better, so just decide the best you can and move on.

 

 

Gemini Horoscope
Gemini Horoscope (May 21 – Jun 20)

Thinking about the future is easy today, but it becomes more complicated if you have to include others in your decisions. At first, you may enjoy the idea of strategizing how to get your friends involved, but executing your plan may be more challenging than it appears. You might grow irritated because your associates are not acting like team players. If the frustration gets to be too much, don’t be afraid to just proceed on your own.

 

 

Cancer Horoscope
Cancer Horoscope (June 21 – Jul 22)

You have been managing a balancing act between your personal needs and your public responsibilities for a while, and now a conflict with a close friend or partner complicates things even more. You don’t care about the superficial aspects of what’s happening; you need to share on a deeper level. However, it’s not easy to open up if you are afraid of being hurt. Revealing your emotions without being overly attached to the outcome can alleviate the pressure, enabling you to overcome your fear.

 

Leo Horoscope
Leo Horoscope (Jul 23 – Aug 22)

You are quite hopeful about a new relationship today, but you still may experience wide mood swings with the Moon activating your 7th House of Partners. Try not to be so attached to your fear of abandonment; don’t over-personalize a situation if someone inadvertently excludes you. You are best off trusting your friends and giving them the same freedom that you want given to you.

 

 

Virgo Horoscope
Virgo Horoscope (Aug 23 – Sep 22)

Although you may still be feeling anxious today, setting priorities and concentrating on the most practical chores should ease the tension. Unfortunately, focusing isn’t a simple task because you can see too many possibilities ahead, which might make you more resistant to the upcoming changes. Bring your thoughts back to the here and now, for the present moment is the only place where you can create an impact. Don’t worry about the inevitable; your future will arrive exactly on schedule.

 

 

Libra Horoscope
Libra Horoscope (Sep 23 – Oct 22)

You can be the life of the party today or the one who’s busy telling jokes at the office water cooler. But your spontaneity adds to your charm, belying your underlying seriousness. Ironically, several planets in your 7th House of Relationships could shift the focus off of you now and bring someone into your life that helps you see yourself more clearly. Your interactions with others give you a mirror with which you can see into your own soul.

 

 

Scorpio Horoscope
Scorpio Horoscope (Oct 23 – Nov 21)

You might mistrust your feelings today as the emotionally detached Aquarius Moon visits your 4th House of Security. It makes you uncomfortable when your rational thoughts are telling your heart what to do, and you’re particularly vulnerable if you lose touch with your feelings. Finding balance is tricky now because ignoring your passions will land you in trouble. Nevertheless, think first before doing something you may regret.

 

 

Sagittarius Horoscope
Sagittarius Horoscope (Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Your friends and associates might find it difficult to accept that you feel so good now. They may believe that something is lurking in the twilight behind your bright smile. Luckily, they are wrong. Although deep issues can rise to the surface over the next few days, you are quite capable of handling them. Don’t worry about what others think; just be true to yourself.

 

 

Capricorn Horoscope
Capricorn Horoscope (Dec 22 – Jan 19)

You have entered a period of financial uncertainty and nothing you do seems to make sense of your fiscal picture. Even a decision about a straightforward purchase could set you on a trajectory that culminates in the sobering realization that you do not have an endless money supply. Although you might understand the steps to manifesting abundance, it may take you longer than you wish to have enough cash to buy what you want.

 

 

Aquarius Horoscope
Aquarius Horoscope (Jan 20 – Feb 18)

It’s difficult to see the effect you have on others today; however, it’s still useful to contemplate the results of your actions before you undertake something that wastes your time and energy. No matter how good your intentions are now, you can still come on too strong. It’s not helpful to annoy someone who normally supports you. However, you could raise suspicions if you are overly cautious. Your smartest strategy is to acknowledge your own power, but wield it only if necessary.

 

 

Pisces Horoscope
Pisces Horoscope (Feb 19 – Mar 20)

You are easily enamored with your own fantasies today as the Moon moves through your 12th House of Imagination. You might even forget when to return to reality. Although drifting off into your dreams is often a rejuvenating activity, you won’t be able to turn your back on your responsibilities now. Planning a temporary escape can work as long as you cover your bases in the real world.

Weekly Love Horoscopes for April 25

 

General Weekly Love Horoscope

 

An opposition from restrictive Saturn to loving Venus on Friday could take some of the steam out of romance this weekend. Yet even if we encounter obstacles, rejection or self-doubt, the fiery Aries Moon keeps pumping us up with fresh hope and bringing surprises that can turn social darkness into light and laughter.

 

Aries Horoscope
Aries Horoscope (Mar 21 – Apr 19)

The Moon in your impulsive sign makes you itchy for action this weekend. But there’s some unfinished personal business to complete before you’re free to play. A serious conversation on Friday will test your commitment toward a relationship. Dealing with the consequences of past actions might not be fun, but is a necessary step to building trust.

 

 

Taurus Horoscope
Taurus Horoscope (Apr 20 – May 20)

Do your best to stay out of the line of fire this weekend since explosive emotions can create unsettling conditions. The restless Aries Moon in your 12th House of Escapism is better suited for avoiding the spotlight than being in the middle of a crowd. Just take some time out to rest and relax instead of overloading your social calendar or pushing for romance.

 

 

Gemini Horoscope
Gemini Horoscope (May 21 – Jun 20)

Going out with friends should make your social life especially entertaining this weekend. The Aries Moon lights up your 11th House of Groups and puts you in the middle of the action, which is both exciting and risky. The downside is that you could get caught up in someone else’s conflict. Avoid getting involved in others’ craziness if you want to have a good time.

 

 

Cancer Horoscope
Cancer Horoscope (June 21 – Jul 22)

You might think that you’re the only adult in a world filled with bratty children this weekend. The mood-setting Moon is in rambunctious Aries and your 10th House of Public Responsibility, making you feel like you have to control those around you. But if you want to enjoy yourself, let others do what they want as long as it doesn’t affect you directly.

 

 

Leo Horoscope
Leo Horoscope (Jul 23 – Aug 22)

Heading into unfamiliar social territory could be the key to making your romantic life more interesting this weekend. The Moon is traveling through your 9th House of Faraway Places, which arouses restless feelings and intense wanderlust. Broadening your horizons with cultural events and people from different countries can provide the spice you need to capture your attention.

 

 

Virgo Horoscope
Virgo Horoscope (Aug 23 – Sep 22)

Surprises are likely this weekend. In spite of your careful planning, it’s almost certain that you will encounter unpredictable people and situations that upset your expectations. While conflicts are possible, a flexible attitude and open mind can invite delight where you least expect to find it, including an attraction to someone who’s not your usual type.

 

 

Libra Horoscope
Libra Horoscope (Sep 23 – Oct 22)

The enthusiastic Aries Moon visits your 7th House of Partners this weekend, which should energize your social life. But you may be too hard on yourself to take advantage of the romantic opportunities. Be clear about what (and who) you want and don’t want, instead of simply shutting up and accepting circumstances that aren’t meeting your needs. You are entitled to be happy just as much as anyone else.

 

Scorpio Horoscope
Scorpio Horoscope (Oct 23 – Nov 21)

Caution is recommended in personal matters this weekend with the Aries Moon speeding through your 6th House of Adjustments. A minor misunderstanding could flame up into a major conflict if you don’t keep your cool. On the plus side, romantic sparks could fly when you’re working with someone and have zero expectations of the fun to come. Keep your options open and you might be pleasantly surprised.

 

 

Sagittarius Horoscope
Sagittarius Horoscope (Nov 22 – Dec 21)

Suit up for a stupendous weekend with the adventurous Aries Moon firing through your 5th House of Romance. Fun and games are to be expected when you allow your spontaneous side to lead the way. You’re bound to make a splash now, but be sensitive if you’re around someone who feels knocked down by life and needs a little tenderness. Consider your audience before you accidentally hurt anyone’s feelings.

 

 

Capricorn Horoscope
Capricorn Horoscope (Dec 22 – Jan 19)

You may have to deal with some serious relationship or self-worth issues on Friday when your hyper-responsible ruling planet Saturn makes a challenging opposition to lovable Venus. But if you can get the hard work out of the way, you will earn the right to party. Play must come after work, which fits your usual mode of operation, anyway.

 
Aquarius Horoscope
Aquarius Horoscope (Jan 20 – Feb 18)

Excitement could await around every corner this weekend. The Moon in high-energy Aries is heating up your 3rd House of Nearby Places and can turn a little trip to the store into a significant social event. Chatty strangers want to tell you their life stories, which is fine only if they,re very interesting, since you may not be especially patient for small talk now.

 

 

Pisces Horoscope
Pisces Horoscope (Feb 19 – Mar 20)

Set aside the tender side of your personality and show some toughness this weekend. The Moon is in rough and ready Aries, which is more about acting first and thinking later than carefully preparing every move. Being bolder in your attitude and appearance may shock those who know you well, but are excellent ways to earn the attention you desire.